Women Troubles...

[cgtkid]

Okay Like it Says Im Having Women Troubles... Its Like every Time I want to Talk with A Girl who is Attractive and either She has a BF whos a Complete Douche Bag or She Ignores You Its Like What do you say to Women To Even give there time of Day???


Please NEED HELP LOL!!!

[terridawn]

#1: From a female perspective, I advise you to be yourself. I personally like when a man walks up to me and introduces himself. That shows he is confident. Be yourself and compliment her (don't overdo it). The compliment can be about her clothes (be sincere).

#2: Show an interest in her. In other words, ask her about herself (school, work, hobbies, etc.). You will hopefully have something in common. Then the conversation will take off!

#3: Kill the BF with kindness (don't overdo it). She may end up being your ally in hooking up with her friend.

[Drayton Sawyer]

And if none of that works you can just slip her a roofie. ;D

[Xч]

If all else fails you can always pick up a copy of Grand Theft Auto 4.
Make sure to also pick up the strategy guide as well-in it you can find great pointers on how to date and pick up women.

[Kwik Kash]

I've learned that there is no one way to approach a woman.

Some women like when you are yourself, but even then they want someone exciting and to keep them interested. If who you are is laid back and tedious, you're going to have a hard time in general.

Some women like overly aggressive men, and if you show a sign of intellectualism, they get turned off as it contradicts what they think a man should be. I've run into these kinds before, not worth dealing with.

Some women like smart men, but this is frustrating as it can mean one of three kinds of smart:

1) Smart but not smarter than her - You must either agree with her, or admit you are wrong.

2) Smart but only in areas she likes - If she likes scrapbooks, but you're a genius mechanic, you had better forget cars and learn scrapbooking.

3) Smart but not a know-it-all - Difficult to find, at least in my experience. Some women like a smart guy who knows how to control himself. But most I encounter fall into the first two categories...

Overall, be honest about yourself. You want someone to fall for YOU, not who you can PRETEND to be.

[The Darkness]

Well, (I strongly disadvise this) I got my girlfriend by having my friend ask her out for me, and now we are practically the perfect couple (Maybe im exaggerating a bit) ;D


But listen to KK and terridawn ;D

[terridawn]

I like having smart friends, so intellectual is good. Usually if I can learn from people I like spending time with them. But the comment about pretending serves as a good warning. Please do not pretend to be smart. You will just make yourself look stupid.

[Chainsaw]

Even though they are difficult and nothing they can do surprises me, we need them, don't we?

What started working for me was whn I hit 20, I just decided to go for it instead of being apprehensive.

Just be confident, they really seem to like that.
Or be like I was, and pretend you are confident. ;D

The worst they can say is no.

[Xч]

Exactly, the worst they can say is no.
Thats it,just keep at it until you get the girl.

[jlaw]

While I'm certainly no pro, confidence generally tends to help tremendously. Heh, I got the same problem you do though. Every girl I take an interest in or go after always has the boyfriend already, and he sounds like a douche at least half the time.

Then there was one time where I ask this chick I was talking to frequently two semesters ago. I had tickets to a hockey game and since I knew she liked hockey, I asked her. She said she'd love to, but her bf would probably get pissed. Fast forward over the weekend, and she breaks up with him. That made me wonder, but in the end, I lost contact with her since she seemed less interested after she broke up with her bf.

Point is, it's a fucking mystery all around.